The Rest of You: Off the Hook!

Two of my good pals, Beth and Kendra, will stand with me during the wedding ceremony. I suppose that makes them "bridesmaids," but I don't really like the term. "Matron of honor" is even worse! Not sure what the alternatives would be, though. Deputy bride? Assistant to the regional manager?

We considered not having any wedding party, actually. I was okay with the idea until Vibha pointed out that I might feel more comfortable with some friends up there when all eyes are on us. Plus I like the idea of kinda deputizing them so they have to listen to all of my wedding talk.

I have other dear friends who could have filled the bridesmaid role just as ably, and you guys know I love ya. But since we're trying to keep things simple, I decided that two would do. As for the bachelorette party, that's a whole different story ... . It's all very tentative for now, but we're thinking of doing it the Thursday before the wedding. Will keep you posted!